exquisite tortures with rope..
Photography: Robert Hold
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candie… tied up and waiting
Robert Hold, Robert Hold Photography
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- Easy and very effective
- Requires nothing but your body
- Includes attack
Very useful to know, pass and share please.
I don’t mean to impose a personal favour on you guys, but I really would like to ask that everyone who follows me reblog this.
I don’t think I made it very clear but last month I was sexually assaulted by someone who I thought was my friend (I don’t want to talk about it don’t ask), and it’s… really fucked with my head.
Had I known this a month ago I would have been able to get away.
So, essentially, I’m really pleading with you to reblog this so everyone who follows you doesn’t get stuck in the same position I was with no way out.
I mean again I don’t want the point of this to be my sob story or whatever but if you could reblog this it would seriously mean a lot
This is so good to know.
Some thoughts that have been stirring on my mind the past few days… I’ve grown to have a bittersweet love/hate (mostly hate filled right now) “thing” with Valentine’s day. Romance, sharing how you feel for your partner, loving, being loved, making your partner feel like they are the best thing in the world to you and their returning that back to you, and so much more should be celebrated every day and not climax just on one “Hallmark Holiday”.
Partially because of this “Hallmark Holiday” and things just finally working their way out for me to deal with them… I terribly miss having someone I can be devoted to emotionally, physically, spiritually. I have spent the better part of the past year passively dealing with a loss of a relationship that I had given and poured my being into. It wasn’t perfect, it certainly could have been worked on and, to me, was worth saving. Alas, things turned out different. She moved on and I got left holding a bag filled with a broken heart to piece back together with glue and duct-tape. Now, here I am… I ache, I yearn, I crave soo much for something healthy, nurturing, supportive, and so very fulfilling.
The friends who have gotten to know me on a level deeper than being an acquaintance… the one’s who I have helped move their stuff in the middle of the night, listened to on the phone, answered txt’s of crisis, saved their butts from the fire while getting singed myself, and just stepped up to help when needed where I can… all of you know just how generous, giving, kind, and selfless I am. I have strived to do acts of service, generosity, kindness out of a place of love and compassion. I can say my mother taught me well in this aspect of life. What I want is to be happy with a companion, a friend, a partner, a spouse, a mate.
To be a man, to be loving, to be generous of self… and without is very bittersweet. The sweetness to it is knowing I am not in a relationship where things are toxic, unbalanced, and abusive. I have my freedom, I have friends, I have my family, I have my daughter. I have things I am so very grateful for and I still long to be completed, complimented, balanced by a woman (or women) who can provide me alternative perspectives so I can better see life more than I see it now.
So… My thoughts on this past Valentine’s Day are this… I am happy for all of you who have your partner, who have full and solid relationships, someone that holds you in the middle of the night, someone who is eager to see you at the end of the day, who supports your endeavors as you support theirs. I am happy for those of you who have that budding love that is fresh and vibrant and full of soo many possibilities. I am not happy to see a day that is a very staunch reminder to those of us who, by circumstance or by choice, are alone and without. I will celebrate healthy and joyous relationships with all of you in the hopes that I will find my match and the happiness that comes with what is, what should be, and will be a healthy, open, relationship.
Photographer: Aparte Photography
Perhaps. A person or two…:)